Sitemap - 2017 - Woman of Letters

Wrapping up 2017!!!

The charismatic and visionary far right leader who we've yet to see...

Have been reading a lot of biographies of painters!

Feel free to just summarize the parts that bore you

Until the voice is solid, the plot doesn't matter

I still don't really understand the Revolutionary War

Oftentimes, a work-in-progress will contain an empty space that you'll later need to fill

On men's contempt for women

In the shadow of disaster, we find out new facets of ourselves

Writers should stop being so uptight when people tell us they've always wanted to write

The sky is orange, and I have a headache

It's odd how self-promotion can suck the joy out of things you used to do for free

I think I've found the exact point where early-period Henry James transitions to middle-period Henry James

Working on multiple projects at once

The strong can afford to play it safe; the weak need to gamble

One way into the heart of longing is through envy

I want to get good at something meaningful

When you find the heart of longing, things begin coming up

Gonna be afk for awhile

I guess it's not really surprising that young adult fiction might have an ageism problem

Some advice to aspiring writers on how to search for the heart of longing

The most difficult and important part of writing is finding the heart of longing

WITH THE EXCEPTION OF 20 STORIES, I’VE NOW READ BASICALLY EVERYTHING ELIZABETH GASKELL EVER PUBLISHED

I've never been too interested in "writing from within the body..."

I understand why most white men believe, on some level, that they're disadvantaged (but I don't agree)

The three different kinds of novels (they're probably not what you think)

Writing blog posts doesn't actually take very much time

Sent out IT'S PROBABLY JUST A PHASE for what I hope is the last time

Where has Elizabeth Gaskell been all my life!

Phew! Overwhelmed by all the events. Also, by my paperback

Concluded my agent search!

OUR SPOONS CAME FROM WOOLWORTHS, by Barbara Comyns

Reading such a good book!!! Katherine Heiny's STANDARD DEVIATION

Onward to the next thing

"I don't know the answer to that, and I'm glad it's not my job to figure it out."

Every revision has been an exercise in pulling back

Feeling quite anxious about sending out my book

Getting ready to get myself all married and such

Been reading so much Donald Westlake. He is so good.

I really liked Wonder Woman

Been writing stories again

Sorry for being out of touch

Went reading through my own backlog today

Sometimes loneliness can be really good

The easiest, and often best, way to make friends is to befriend an "includer"

Well this blog's name is now the WAR ON LONELINESS

Making friends isn't an easy or mechanical process

Will continue the WAR ON LONELINESS series tomorrow

Not gone, just depressed

How to get invited to parties =]

All self-help, of any kind, should come with this sort of disclaimer

It's hard to _try_ to make friends; what's more productive is to find situations where friendships will form naturally

Don't listen to all the terrible clickbait friend-making advice out there

The first step to gaining friends is to stop hanging out with people you don't actually like

I'm not an expert in making friends; I'm an expert in fighting loneliness

How to make friends as an adult (even when you're not particularly interesting, attractive, or charismatic).

Hurt myself skiing. Trapped at home. Feeling low. Watching BREAKING BAD.

Trying not to think about writing except when I'm actually writing

Drank coffee for the first time in three years!

Working working working working

At the same time as I've been reading all these romance novels, I've been listening to AMERICAN PSYCHO

What it's like to read romance novels while you're in love

It's amazing how a dirty plate can get in the way of writing

Mired deep in novel-writing angst

Quit smoking six years ago today!

Just ignore everything I say about projects until I'm halfway through

Working on another book idea, this time for adults

My book idea fell apart, as these things tend to do, so now I'm casting about again

Getting into work mode

But then again, sometimes you do just need keyboard time...

The goal is to write good books, not rack up a certain number of hours behind the keyboard

Work on the thing you actually want to work on

I read a book about the Russian Revolution!

So close to being done with this revision pass!!!

Have finished the 'rewrite' part of the revision pass, am now in the 'hoping it hangs together' part

Coming really close to the end of this round of revision

SECONDHAND TIME might be the worst possible thing to listen to at this moment

Got up so early in the morning today!

Secondhand Time is an amazing listening experience

If your revised manuscript still has the same events in the same order, then what was the point?

Sober for seven years now!!!

Feeling slightly less panicky than I did yesterday

Not an amazing day of writing

Finishing by the end of the month seemed a lot more achievable on January 8th

I've given so much money to Amazon, it's awful

Nothing ever happens in my life, aside from all the things I don't talk about

This revision process has been all about pulling back on the drama

Finished reading WAR AND PEACE. Now I don't believe in free will anymore

Revision is going well...

Watched the recent film adaptation of Jane Austen's Lady Susan, LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

Definitely am feeling like I should be more productive

Did you know there are lightbulbs that can connect to WIFI?

I feel like I'm reading more and more the past

Not an amazing first day of revision

Back home, editing my novel againaudiobook, Brideshead revisited, evelyn waugh

Finished THE BETROTHED