The easiest, and often best, way to make friends is to befriend an "includer"

Okay, I almost hesitate to write about this topic right now, because I know a lot of you are gonna read it and be like, "What the fuck? He's basically telling us it's all luck."

But I want you to read carefully and see what I am and am not saying. I do think having a vibrant social life involves a lot of luck, but I also think that if you know what you'r…