How to make friends as an adult (even when you're not particularly interesting, attractive, or charismatic).

So far as I can tell, most adults have no roots in the area where they live. They didn't grow up there. And, if they went to college, their college was in some other place. They often relocated to their current metro area either for a job, graduate school, or with the aspiration of leading a cool and awesome life. They often work hard, but not quite har…