I've never been able to get a super-clear read on my own sexual orientation, and that's just how it is sometimes.

Same-sex attraction certainly exists. And it's probably biological. But, in some ways, the existential life of the individual queer person would be easier if it wasn't a question of biology, because then it would just be a question of taste and could be interrogated as such. We have plenty of tools for analyzing questions of taste: straight men know exa…