Following the Golden Rule is the ticket to an unhappy life...

I have lived with a lot of people in my life. And I've always (with no exceptions, pretty much) been very happy with my roommates, because I tend to have zero expectations. In my opinion, people are going to be who they are. And you can nag at them and nag at them, but they're still going to make noise if they're noisy people or be messy if they're mess…